“THE ROLE OF MEN IN FAMILIES IS TRANSFORMING”, SAYS PROF. DYASI

By Phetoho Maja

•⁠ ⁠There’s a notable increase in men actively participating in childcare, housework, and emotional nurturing—challenging long-held stereotypes.
•⁠ ⁠Measures like paternity leave and fatherhood training programs are equipping men to take on more balanced and supportive roles in family life.
•⁠ ⁠The shift toward inclusive masculinity is not only transforming men’s lives but also improving family dynamics, gender equality, and child development outcomes.

Gender and HIV/AIDS activist Professor Mbulelo Dyasi has highlighted the evolving role of men in families, noting a significant shift away from traditional gender norms toward a more inclusive and supportive form of masculinity.

Speaking at the International Day of Families celebration held last Thursday at PGCC Church in Buhle Park, Eastern Corridor, Prof. Dyasi addressed over 300 attendees, including older persons, Persons with Disabilities, youth, and faith-based organizations. The Gauteng Department of Social Development hosted the event.
In his keynote address, Dyasi shared his personal insights on how men’s roles in families are transforming.
“This conversation challenges the old norms and promotes a more nurturing and inclusive masculinity,” he said. “At first, I thought the topic would be tough to unpack, but it became so relatable—especially when I embraced my identity as a kasi man.”
Prof. Dyasi identified several factors driving this transformation, including evolving societal attitudes, the introduction of progressive policies such as paternity leave, and a growing awareness of the benefits of gender-equal parenting.

He outlined key aspects of this changing dynamic:
•⁠ ⁠Greater Involvement in Childcare and Housework: More men are now taking active roles in raising children and managing household responsibilities, moving beyond the outdated idea of men as sole breadwinners.
•⁠ ⁠Providing Emotional Support: Men are increasingly expected—and empowered—to offer emotional care to partners and children, helping foster strong, emotionally healthy family bonds.
•⁠ ⁠Redefining Masculinity: The shift involves challenging harmful stereotypes of dominance and emotional suppression and embracing a more open and expressive model of manhood.
Prof. Dyasi also emphasized the role of policies and programs in supporting these changes:
•⁠ ⁠Paternity Leave: Enables men to support their families during childbirth and early parenting.
•⁠ ⁠Fatherhood Training Programs: Help men build parenting skills and connect with support networks.
•⁠ ⁠Gender Equality Advocacy: As men evolve in their familial roles, they become key agents in promoting equality both at home and in society.

He concluded with a call to action for communities:
“Let us continue to support and celebrate men who are redefining their roles. In doing so, we are building stronger families and a more inclusive society.”