PARENTING PROGRAMME OFFERS TOOLS FOR STRONGER BONDS AND LEGAL SUPPORT

By Lehlohonolo Khumalo

The Gauteng Department of Social Development recently hosted a Parenting Skills Programme at its Katlehong office, aimed at empowering parents with essential information and skills for effective child-rearing.

Led by the Family and Marriage Society of South Africa (FAMSA), discussions focused on discipline approaches, distinguishing between punishment and discipline, while also introducing various parenting styles to foster healthier relationships.

Insights from the Office of the Family Advocate highlighted legal protections for children in parental disputes, offering parents a platform to raise concerns and connect with additional resources in the Eastern Corridor.

The Gauteng Department of Social Development recently hosted a Parenting Skills Programme at its Katlehong office in the Eastern Corridor. The initiative aimed to empower and educate parents by sharing essential information and skills for effective child-rearing. Attendees were also updated on new laws designed to help parents foster healthier relationships with their children.

The Family and Marriage Society of South Africa (FAMSA) led discussions on various disciplinary approaches, distinguishing between punishment and discipline. “Parents should avoid punishing their children, as it causes emotional harm,” said Ms. Phaphama Martins from FAMSA. “Be mindful of your words; name-calling damages a child’s self-esteem. Physical punishment fuels anger that can persist into adulthood.”

Martins also introduced three parenting styles: “Jellyfish” parenting, characterised by inconsistency; “Brick Wall” parenting, which enforces rigid rules; and “Balanced” parenting, the recommended approach that promotes consistency and nurtures healthy relationships.

Ms. Ntweleng Shadi from the Office of the Family Advocate, based at the Palmridge Magistrate Court, shared insights into how they protect the interests of minor children, particularly in cases of parental disputes, divorce, or custody battles involving unmarried parents. The Family Advocate, appointed by the Department of Justice, represents children in legal matters and collaborates with registered social workers to resolve complex family situations.

During the initiative, parents were given the opportunity to raise concerns with the panel, with some being referred to service points in the Eastern Corridor for additional assistance. Among those present was Ms. Jeanette Nkosi, who expressed worries about her granddaughter’s refusal to wear clothes she buys for her. Nkosi also mentioned challenges regarding foster care, as her neighbours interfere with her caregiving responsibilities.