DSD STRENGTHENS FAMILIES THROUGH INTERGENERATIONAL DIALOGUE IN BOKSBURG

By Thandeka Stampu

• ⁠Intergenerational Dialogue strengthens communication, respect, and understanding between parents and children
• Parents report adopting more effective parenting approaches, leading to improved communication, clearer boundaries, and stronger, more trusting family relationships
• ⁠DSD reinforces the link between rights, responsibilities, and healthy family environments

The Department of Social Development (DSD) has successfully concluded a two-day Intergenerational Dialogue held from 25 to 26 March 2026 in Boksburg, Gauteng, reaffirming its commitment to building stronger, more resilient families.

The retreat brought together parents and children in a safe, reflective space to engage openly on family dynamics, communication, and mutual understanding. Taking place during Human Rights Month, the dialogue formed part of the Department’s intensified efforts to amplify the voices of families and promote the values of dignity, respect, and responsibility within the home.

During group discussions, parents reflected on the positive transformation they have experienced since joining the programme. Many reported improved parenting approaches, stronger communication, and a greater ability to set clear boundaries. A recurring message from parents was the importance of supporting children holistically.

“It is our duty as parents to encourage, guide, and support our children,” one parent shared.
Gauteng DSD Director, Ms Phumla Xaba, emphasised that respect within families must be mutual and practised by all.
“Honour is not one-sided. Children cannot be the only ones expected to show respect,” she said.

She further encouraged parents to lead by example, highlighting that respectful behaviour must be modelled at home, while children are equally called upon to demonstrate patience and understanding. Discussions underscored that harmful behaviours such as abuse, neglect, and irresponsibility erode trust and weaken the foundation of families.

Speaking during the session, Mr Bernard Sithole reinforced the importance of co-parenting and the active involvement of fathers in children’s lives.
“Every child deserves the presence of both parents where possible,” he said.

He further called on mothers to support and allow willing fathers to play a meaningful role. He added that where biological fathers are absent, extended family members, such as uncles, older brothers, and grandfathers, can play an important role in providing guidance and support.

Importantly, the dialogue reminded participants that while children have rights, these rights come with responsibilities. As South Africa reflects on 30 years of democracy and constitutional values, the Department continues to emphasise that the realisation of rights begins within families, where respect, accountability, and care must be nurtured daily.

The retreat concluded on a heartfelt note with the handover of certificates and gifts to participants. A powerful reflective activity saw young girls encouraged to look into a mirror and affirm their self-worth, serving as a symbolic reminder of dignity, identity, and self-love.

Through initiatives such as the Intergenerational Dialogue, the Department of Social Development continues to champion strengthening families as the cornerstone of a caring, rights-based society.